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I suppose it depends on the guy and girl. Not everyone matures at the same rate. Ten years isn't too bad. She's a cougar, but not necessarily a. I'm 25 and I'm starting to date a 17 year old, I wonder if it really is wrong. . Not any different if you were 26 and she was but I do find there to be a major power imbalance when a grown man wants to date a younger girl. A girl I know dated a thirty year old guy when she wasa Soph. in high school. # 26 Posted by ZeRo-ZeN ( posts) - 11 years, 3 months ago. 2 years is fine.
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It is also illegal to own or possess pornography featuring people under This is important to consider for anyone under 18 who sends or receives nude photos to their partner s. How old can my sexual partner be? If you are… Under 12 years old: You cannot consent to sexual activity with anyone of any age.
You can consent to sexual activity with anyone who is less than two years older than you, unless that person is in a position of power, trust, or authority. You can consent to sexual activity with anyone who is less than five years older than you, unless that person is in a position of power, trust, or authority. You can consent to sexual activity with anyone who is older than you, unless that person is in a position of power, trust, or authority.
Age 18 or older: You can consent to sexual activity with anyone who is older than you. How young can my sexual partner be? You cannot have sexual activity with anyone of any age. You cannot have sexual activity with someone who is under the age of You cannot have sexual activity with someone who is two or more years younger than you. Men and women have no interest in dating as old as the creepiness rule allows. So I decided to find the answers myself.
I created a survey.
Although I could have hit the streets of New York and surveyed people in-person Buunk style, I decided to mTurk my survey. I try to avoid as much social interaction in my daily life as possible. This can vary from transcribing a movie, to identifying an item on a receipt, to taking a survey about hypothetical romantic relationships.
Within a few days I got responses: As John and Lauren got older, however, the creepiness rule differed from how people actually responded. Yet according to the survey, 37 was well outside the age range of what is socially acceptable. The results also showed that the creepiness rule is too restrictive about how old you can date when you are young, but becomes too lenient as you get older.
Yet, people surveyed were fine with John and Lauren seeing someone in their early 30's. When John and Lauren are 60, the creepiness rule allows them to date anyone older than themselves the official cap is This will come in handy over the next few decades. Congratulations on making a good choice and taking care of both of you. Are you freaking serious? When true love knocked on my door, she'd just barely turned sixteen; And I was a little bit nervous, if you know just what I mean.
But I heard somewhere that true love conquers all, and figured that was that, then I started havin' dreams 'bout bein' chased out of town wearin' nothing but my cowboy hat. I said, "No deal We did not actually have sex, though it was very difficult.
In the end, despite that she was very mature for fifteen, the age difference wound up being a problem. This is a distinct possibility that complicates things further. Shame about the law, but there it is. A friend of mine dated a girl that was under 18 in Phoenix, AZ. He was probably 19 or This was a few years back, so I don't remember exact age.
But, he got consent from the parents and started dating this chick. A month down the road, he pissed the girl off, which in turn pissed off the parents and they took it to the cops. They warned him to stay away, but how could he? He already spent a month dating this chick like every day and he wanted to work things out. And you know she probably only stayed upset for like a day or two, while the parents never forgot.
So while trying to work things out picking her up from school, taking her out more, etc he somehow ended up in prison for few years.
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I guess the moral of the story is that parents can change their mind about consent while you too are deeply in love. Especially with this discussion here, now, in the public record. There were upsides and downsides but ultimately it didn't work out. I couldn't go to bars with him which was a pain. His friends' girlfriends were older and thought I was too young and weren't particilarly nice about it. He wanted to have sex and I didn't want to.
I'm 25 and I'm starting to date a 17 year old, I wonder if it really is wrong.? - guyQ by AskMen
In my world this was normal and in his world it totally wasn't. When I stayed out late with him it was, again, normal for him and really not normal for me. In fact, my Mom flipped out once when I came home at 3 am and threatened to have him arrested for statutory. That fight has created a rift between us to this day my Mom and I. In the end, we broke up because I didn't want to have sex with him.
In looking back at it, he was somewhat immature and generally into dating high school girls, which seemed cool to me, a high school girl, at the time, but now I'm sort of like "what was he thinking? If it were me, I'd wait and see what college brings her, assuming she'll ber more independent from her family, out on her own etc. On the off chance that she's the one for you, she'll still be there. Ok, good, my work here is done for those of you who are late to the game. Congreve posted by bilabial at 8: You don't want nothin' to do with this.
Be nice, but be clear that she is too young for you to date. Recommend she date some young men nearer her own age. Even without the "jailbait" angle, this guy could murder you or get a cop buddy to do it and get away with it. You could be shot while "resisting arrest" or something; not too long ago a cop in my city shot a guy in the back as he was running away "because he feared for his life". Try to stay out of jail.
MJ's Daughter Paris Jackson, Age 17, Dating A 26-Year-Old Man (An Alleged Racist)?
This means having a little sexual discipline, but it isn't like you can't touch each other. Try to take it very slow. She's really young and naive and her parents are divorced so she'll have some issues. This is always essential when dating. Be open and honest with yours. Having a cop in the family is always good. What a bunch of whiners on this thread. Like age gaps never worked out in relationships. Check out the divorce rate. Being the same age never helped anyone. Wait until she is 18 to start dating her.
If you fall in love for 'er and 'er and get married, it'll be a romantic story. I would run run run run from any grown man who dated a high school girl. If you don't, there are two things that will happen- you'll stay together until you die, or you'll break up. If you fall in love He learned the valuable lesson that if you actually have to look up statutory rape laws in your area to make sure your relationship is legal, you really shouldn't be in that relationship.
He didn't let it happen They've been married over 30 years now and have raised 3 great kids. I tried that with some one older than me once. Turned out, I was in love and he just wanted to bang me.
It is good to get perspective on intentions for all parties. Your question was, is it okay socially and legally for you date this girl? The answer is no, and no. One thing I don't understand is why love keeps coming up. I don't know about you guys but I can't fall in love with someone after a month a month of not dating even. I've only been in one relationship before this, it lasted five years and I'm not totally sure I was in love with her, as I have nothing to compare it too.
FauxScot thank you for the kind words. I do somewhat pride myself on my logical more then emotional outlook on life, and thinking things through is just something I do it's just the way I am.
Sadly I often over think things, and that as well has caused problems with past and possible relationships. Seriously don't do it.
Even if for some really bizarre reason her parents are fine with it, that means they're fine with it now. That doesn't mean they'll still be fine with it tomorrow or after a few weeks or after a few months. Take that thought even further, if they decide to press charges admittingly far-featched but still very possible, dad's a cop yo. You're a 21 year old man going after a 16 year old girl. Right or wrong, you have no defense. Seriously, don't do it. What matters greatly is the circumstances, mainly whether her parent s are likely to have you busted and declared a Sex Offender or not.
By the way, does it strike anybody else as stupid that consensual relations with a young woman who's legal in the next state can ruin someone's life, and that a lot of employers etc. Admittedly this sounds less likely than ruining your life by making sure you become a Registered Sex Offender, but still.
My advice is don't do it because it's "wrong" it isn't or because it's illegal so's potbut don't do it because her father is a cop.
In your opinion, is it wrong to date a 15 year old when i'm 17?
If you do insist on being involved with her then make sure you always drive the speed limit, never drink and drive, never possess any illegal substances, try to follow the letter of every law you can think of, and let her win every argument she thinks is important.
You'd basically be mortgaging your manhood and your sanity for fear she really will "Tell Daddy on you.
Like jessamyn, I very briefly dated a year-old with whom I broke up because I didn't want to have sex. I also dated a really, really nice guy who put the brakes on due to my age and always behaved appropriately. I remember him fondly, but while it seemed like a big deal at the time, I really just went out with him a couple of times right before I left for college.
Looking back, echoing brittanie, I was more flattered by the attention than really interested. As for the age difference being a problem between just you and her, I don't think it would be fair to you or her to not give the relationship a chance based on that.