Field Report: first date with a Pakistani girl
Dec 27, There's a dearth of Pakistani men marrying American women that sometimes our women hate the men doing that, even dating American. Feb 2, Even his cousin in Calcutta who has never stepped foot in America. The Pakistani woman came to my house first, then her husband followed. Aug 25, Thread: Field Report: first date with a Pakistani girl. Results 1 to 10 of 10 . Even though I'm white I'm not big into American girls. As most south.
While texting may not always lead to a date, who knows what the future might hold? Rapid advances in technology and encroaching Western attitudes could lead to a totally different way of social networking. Like everyone else in the world, Pakistani women are proficient at using Google, posting videos and using social networks in order to form new contacts.
However, when people from West, or anywhere else, would like to date a female from such an interesting country, they should understand that, although slightly more liberal than they were several years ago, Pakistani women are still not as free and open as typical single women from Europe or America.
Having strong family roots and traditions, their culture is quite different from the rest of the world, and one should take care when meeting a lady from this country.
Remember and try to understand the cultural differences, preferably before going out on your first date. Patience is a virtue, an especially important one when meeting someone from another ethnic group. Quick guide for a successful date with an Pakistani girl Males in charge! More often than not, a woman still has no choice as to whom she may date or to whom she will eventually be married. Another reason why you should take your time is that Western couples have a much higher percentage of divorce than Pakistanis, who have a percentage rate of around one.
If you decide to go for it, keep an open mind. How to go about meeting a girl from Pakistan First, you have to discover her, and the best way to go about doing this is to join an international or interracial dating service, such as International Love, eHarmony, Meet Asian Singles, or the well-known AsianDating, where you can meet single women from all parts of Asia.
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A few lines should be enough, but make sure they are short and catchy, enough to tell the world who you are and what you want.
You can also add a photo, or two. Again, these should be the genuine article, not a photo-shopped version of a super hero. Remember, on the day of the BIG MEET your prospective partner will expect to see the same person she fell in love with when she read your dating site profile. Register for free and start dating today!
She was already falling for Saks; soon enough, the two were making plans to see each other again. The date went so well that he postponed his flight for a week later; the two met every day while he was in Redwood City. There was no turning back; hereon their relationship went from strength to strength. She started to learn Urdu. They decided it was time to get the families involved. The job was not difficult for Saks.
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When he told his parents he has met and fallen in love with a Palestinian Christian girl they were forthcoming. Suzie, however, did not expect the same enthusiasm from her family. Saks and Suzie wanted to "absorb" as much of each other's culture as possible.
As predicted, her attempts to get them to accept Saks did not bear fruit. While she managed to win over her mother, one sister and one brother, others were not on board. After a year-long struggle, the couple finally got married. Today, Suzie and Saks have a boy. Suzie is a standup comedian in New York. Suzie manages to find the funny in her situation and is currently writing a book titled I Married a Muslim and No One Died.
The learning continues to this day. Being open to different cultures is the only way to fight racism, they believe. Talking about Bollywood movies, she suggested we see one, then later while chatting about restaurants I pointed out a favorite and she said "hey! Toward the end of the date I think I started talking too much The 2nd half wasn't bad, but was definitely more "friend zone" type convo Should I have ended the date earlier on a higher note?
She didn't seem super engaged at that point which only made me more nervous about what to do.
Her body language during the last hour was not good I got her to light up and lean forward once but she wasn't sitting as she was in the restaurant I'm a fast talker and move skittishly. I'm working on speaking slower and improving my body language, but I'm sure I was talking quickly and moving a bit nervously while she was totally composed and calm.
I don't have much experience with dating or "game.
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Most women in their 40s are limited to men in their 50s since guys in 40s would go for girls in 30sbut she's so gorgeous I do not doubt men in their 20s and 30s line up for her.
Which means I probably have a lot of competition and am not the only guy in his 30s asking her out. She's so my type it's scary. I've always loved Indian and Pakistani woman and here is a total winner possibly within my reach.
I could care less if she turns out to be 47; she's clever, gorgeous, and has a good sense of humor. Even though I'm white I'm not big into American girls. As most south Asian girls are married early in their 20s, or are not allowed to date outside their own culture, this is a rare opportunity and I will not next her unless she clearly shows no further interest.
You may laugh at this report, as I'm 37 and am supposed to know this stuff. But I threw away 20 years of my life and didn't really approach or pursue women until a year ago I've stumbled into two relationships, but have generally been clueless about "game" and approaching women.
I wish I could be 20 again, but it is what it is and I have to make do with where I am in life now. I'll research whether I should text a quick "good time, let's repeat later this week," and when I should call Thanks for the help so far and wish me the best.
PS - She's big on clever and smart. She knows she's beautiful but really likes compliments about her brain. How does "fun meeting you, you are as clever as you are pretty" sound? Note she's over 40 so this isn't your 20 year old college girl, I'm not looking for a fling nor is she I am perfectly fine being pegged in the BF category, as I'm looking to settle down. PPS - I'm unsure how to escalate if she agrees to another date