Stay at Home Club: Why More Women Are Giving Up Dating
So how do we know when to give up on a relationship, and how do we know When approaching the actions you should take before choosing to break up. To the single woman who has completely given up on dating and relationships, but still has the desire for a partner: I want to tell you something. I may not be in. After knowing I put it out there that I wasn't looking for a serious relationship nor a hook up, I can see where that could give a guy the wrong.
While having someone in your life can temporarily make you feel complete, the feeling is fleeting and short-lived. You have to feel complete within yourself first. Being complete with yourself is a permanent feeling.
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No one should or can take away this feeling from you. Refer to number 4 listed above and learn to enjoy who you are and embrace yourself fully. When you do, you will not seek completion from someone else, but instead, see out someone who is complimentary.
And that is what makes a dynamic relationship. You are not afraid for them to see you at your worse. They support you, cheer for you, and want you to be successful.
Leave that relationship quickly. Sometimes even though you may say you want love, you may do things that push love away instead of pulling it closer to you. Let me explain further.
I was guilty many times out of protecting my heart. The bottom line is that to experience love; you have to be willing to embrace or be open to being loved. Your feelings are tender and dear to your heart, so putting up a blocker, or protective mode is normal because it keeps you from being hurt. But, if someone is doing the right things, and trying to show you love you owe it to you and them to give them a fair shot. Now, on to our next lesson: The power of vulnerability in a relationship.
Vulnerability and love go hand in hand. Your willingness to show some level of vulnerability makes your relationship more transparent and real. Talk about wearing your feelings on your sleeve. But, guess what, when you are vulnerable it shows you are real and have depth.
Think about your friendships. When did those friendships become more solidified? If I had to take a guess, it was when you allowed yourself to share something vulnerable about yourself and your friend did the same.
Those moments are what cement true friendships.
And they do the same in relationships. No relationship can move forward or be sustainable without your willingness to be honest with one another about your fears, concerns, and failures. These real moments create more solid and longer-standing relationships. As I said, I almost gave up on love.
But, it came when I least expected it. My partner compliments me.
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Love is available to you too. And I promise you if you change your mindset to accept that this is true, the roadmap to finding love will be part of your journey also. If you need more assistance in your journey, maybe I can help you. Ready for next steps?
There is a relationship that will work for you. Sometimes all you need is a nudge in the right direction. If you are struggling with your current relationship, newly divorced and looking to get back in the dating scene, or single and trying to find the right person for you, maybe I can help.
Check out my website to receive free dating tips and relationship advice. Make Men Into Their Pet Project Single men are giving up on women because they are tired of women making them into pet project. Men, single or not, should not put up with this and should be upfront that they will not put up with this or where they will draw a line of compromise. Not Communicating What They Want Single men have given up on women because they do not directly communicate what they want and expect men to know by correctly reading body language.
Women most often blame men for not communicating enough. Men are tired of always receiving the blame while women get away blame free. Decided That Women Are Not Worth Their Time Single men have given up on women because they have decided that women are not worth their time to try to develop any type of relationship with.
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Women have continually ignored them. Women have not been willing to get to know a guy as a friend. Women have stopped communicating with men when even when men are nice. Men have tried their best to be friendly, nice, and sociable and yet women still act those ways by following the bandwagon fallacy that all men are animals who are not worth their time. Thought Of As Animals Single men are giving up on women because they are sick of being thought of as animals. Women characterize men as being lowly animals who have human characteristics and are only necessary to put up with on a daily basis.
This treatment implicitly make women who think this way to only view men as animals and it will damage their relationships with men. Men are tired of being thought of as animals and rightly should not put up with it. Men Are Disappointing Single men have giving up on women because they are tired of being thought of as a disappointment. If men are friends with women who believes this about men, they will likely not remain friends for long because it is detrimental to their friendship.
These types of thoughts, values, and statements hurt men yet it is perfectly acceptable for women to say things like this while if men did something similar, they would be called sexist or a misogynist. This is a double standard that is acceptable by society. For women that think this about men, men are tired of hearing this things and putting up with it so it is no surprise that men continue to leave women.
Men are sick of it. Man-Child Single men are giving up on women because they are tired of being thought of as a man-child. Women think that men are merely grown children.
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This term assumes that men are immature and are incapable of being adults and are still children. Men are tired of being portrayed as only grown children by the media and treated as such by women.
Are you starting to see a pattern and double standard here? Losers Single men are giving up on women because they are tired of being thought of as a loser. Since they are a man-child, they must be a loser too because men must not have a great job or something else that is thought to make men a winner and a real man.
Men are tired of this thinking from women.
Rescue Men Single men are giving up on women because they are tired of women believing that they need to rescue men from themselves.
Once single men start dating a woman, and later marry a woman, women think that it is their job to rescue their man from whatever they think is wrong with them.
Women like to shape men into their own image. Single men are fed up with having women compartmentalize all men as needing to be rescued. Single men, continue this trend of not dating women. All Men Are The Same Single men are giving up on women because they are tired of women thinking that all men are the same. Men are only the same in that they share xx chromosomes; beyond that men have range of different interests, goals, and views on life.
In short, all men are not the same. There are nice men. There are bad men. There are successful men. There are men with traditional values and there are men with progressive values. All men are not the same.